One quarrel, argue even fight, when she or he hasn’t the peace in him or her.

yeah, there were many arguments between me and dear or me and ame.
I realized when a person has not enough peace in him or her, this person tend to fall into an argument easily, and when, such argument is not properly dealt, then, don’t be surprised that this may turned out to be a fight.
I really thank GOD for His grace and mercy. I thank God that whenever I was in the verge of falling into an argument, He pulled me up and filled me with His peace.